James, we had a good conversation just a few weeks ago. It still doesn't seem real. Our families are so close to each other. Selenia and I think of you as a son, with Steph, Amber, Steven and Lynda as all part of our joint family. May you find happiness in your new stage of being.

My son, you will forever be leaving your legacy as the powerful lighthouse you are, and I’m so grateful and humbled you chose me to be your mother. I know how much you loved your family, and your friends were considered family to you as well! I trust you are finding peace even though we know you didn’t want to leave us so soon! It has been said the brightest stars burn the fastest and you sure did live your life as fully as possible! Your wife and children will be taken care of so Rest In Peace my dear son. You truly are one of the best and I will never be the same Because you lived! You changed my life forever and I am deeply and eternally grateful ... thank you for it all 💙